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Monday, November 16, 2009
Family Relationships
When it comes to a family, what are some of the issues that weaken relationships between husband/wife, parent/child, or child/child? What are common problems? Explore one.
Families can experience many problems that can weaken their family relationships. One of these problems caould be communication. If people can't communicate with each other, big problems can arise. This can cause major fights within a family. This waekens the bond that a family can share.
I agree with the first post. communication is a big problem that causes fights in families. If there isn't communication in a relationship it can create problems because someone could say something and a fight could break out because one person is talking about one thing then the other person is talking about something esle. Also if a family doesn't talk, doesn't communicate, relationships will fall apart because the people in the relationship don't really know each other so if problems come up they will not be able to work together or overcome that problem.
In families there can be many different conflict's but some more than others. Probably one of the most common problems in families world wide is mis- communication, and disagreements. Mis- communications in families can cause fights between families and friends. They can also cause people to say things that they really don't mean, for example I hate you or, I wish I never met you. those types of comments could really destroy a relationship or friendship that you have with someone. Also another common probalby that is going on between families and family members is not being able to trust a certain person. You need to be able to trust someone to tell things to, otherwise you won't have anybody to tell any issues that you might be having. Also say that a husband and wife are having an argument because on thinks that the other is doing something behind their back, even if they are wrong, they in their mind are still going to think that the other one did something, and will never be able to be trusted again. Another common problem that can weaken families is different point of views. Someone thinks that something should be done one way, and someone else thinks differently. This could lead to many arguments, and could and will probably eventually lead to tearing a family apart. One little problem could easily tear a family apart in a matter of moments.
I agree with the above comments. Communication and many disagreements can lead a family to serious problems, such as having the family getting torn apart. I also think when a family isn't there for one another in time of need, an issue can arise. If a family member is having difficulty with someone or something, they need their family's guidance and help. The problem starts to occur when a family doesn't see the conflict as clear as the one person does, or when a family member uses the line, "I'm too busy". If a family is too busy to help each other, then not only is trust gone, appreciation and comfort for the person has been lost as well.
There are many reasons that a family's relationship could be suffering or lacking. The most common reason a family might be having problems that have been weakening there relationship is communication. Communication is key for keeping any type of relationship. Also, technology has created a bigger problem when it comes to communication. Because so many of use communicate over the internet or by texting it has made it more difficult for people to communicate face to face. Along with this, as children get older, they start to become more independent, which can create tension between that child and the parents. These two factors are the most common reasons that family's relationships weaken.
In families many different problems can arise that effect the entire family. One big example is if the husband are fighting constantly or even divorce. This causes much tension between children and their parents because the child usually doesn't know why. This brings up a psychological problem within some children because they don't know who's side to be on. Also, if a family gets divorced it is a huge adaptation for the child to make because of the constant going back and forth from living with one parent to another. Also, custody battles put the child in between a legal arguement that most children aren't ready to handle and they can't choose who to live with.
Families have many problems, and their ties to eachother a weakened every day. They have their good moments, and their bad moments. They go through many events that strain the relationship. Arguing, yelling, and punishing weaken a relationship. Praising strengthens it. Its hard to keep family relationships healthy because you spend so much time together. Like other posts said, communicating is key.
every family has there own seperate issues that they dont tel anyone. all families are different, no matter what the family who think wont have a problem will have one. families dont communicate as wel as they should and that causes many verbal issues like fightin with one another. when one family member does not comminicate with another those two people will argue why didnt you tell me?
I think that one of the biggest problems in a family relationship is understanding. Its hard for a parent to understand their children and vise versa. kids have a tendency to try and break the rules. Parents have to enforce them. That alone can only cause problems. Every family has these problems and besides any other different problems caused by different family problems we tend to get past this as we grow older. In the end most people would do anything for family no matter what type of relationship they have with them.
(hahaha) Just being related can be a problem. It's just that all family's have there problems and that's normal. For example my brother and I we fight from video games and tv to food. The same thing with older people like my grandparents and great grandparents. But, some basic issues are what to shop for, money, the economy and marriage. That's the Basic's for the people married.
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Families can experience many problems that can weaken their family relationships. One of these problems caould be communication. If people can't communicate with each other, big problems can arise. This can cause major fights within a family. This waekens the bond that a family can share.
I agree with the first post. communication is a big problem that causes fights in families. If there isn't communication in a relationship it can create problems because someone could say something and a fight could break out because one person is talking about one thing then the other person is talking about something esle. Also if a family doesn't talk, doesn't communicate, relationships will fall apart because the people in the relationship don't really know each other so if problems come up they will not be able to work together or overcome that problem.
In families there can be many different conflict's but some more than others. Probably one of the most common problems in families world wide is mis- communication, and disagreements. Mis- communications in families can cause fights between families and friends. They can also cause people to say things that they really don't mean, for example I hate you or, I wish I never met you. those types of comments could really destroy a relationship or friendship that you have with someone. Also another common probalby that is going on between families and family members is not being able to trust a certain person. You need to be able to trust someone to tell things to, otherwise you won't have anybody to tell any issues that you might be having. Also say that a husband and wife are having an argument because on thinks that the other is doing something behind their back, even if they are wrong, they in their mind are still going to think that the other one did something, and will never be able to be trusted again.
Another common problem that can weaken families is different point of views. Someone thinks that something should be done one way, and someone else thinks differently. This could lead to many arguments, and could and will probably eventually lead to tearing a family apart. One little problem could easily tear a family apart in a matter of moments.
I agree with the above comments. Communication and many disagreements can lead a family to serious problems, such as having the family getting torn apart. I also think when a family isn't there for one another in time of need, an issue can arise. If a family member is having difficulty with someone or something, they need their family's guidance and help. The problem starts to occur when a family doesn't see the conflict as clear as the one person does, or when a family member uses the line, "I'm too busy". If a family is too busy to help each other, then not only is trust gone, appreciation and comfort for the person has been lost as well.
There are many reasons that a family's relationship could be suffering or lacking. The most common reason a family might be having problems that have been weakening there relationship is communication. Communication is key for keeping any type of relationship. Also, technology has created a bigger problem when it comes to communication. Because so many of use communicate over the internet or by texting it has made it more difficult for people to communicate face to face. Along with this, as children get older, they start to become more independent, which can create tension between that child and the parents. These two factors are the most common reasons that family's relationships weaken.
In families many different problems can arise that effect the entire family. One big example is if the husband are fighting constantly or even divorce. This causes much tension between children and their parents because the child usually doesn't know why. This brings up a psychological problem within some children because they don't know who's side to be on. Also, if a family gets divorced it is a huge adaptation for the child to make because of the constant going back and forth from living with one parent to another. Also, custody battles put the child in between a legal arguement that most children aren't ready to handle and they can't choose who to live with.
Families have many problems, and their ties to eachother a weakened every day. They have their good moments, and their bad moments. They go through many events that strain the relationship. Arguing, yelling, and punishing weaken a relationship. Praising strengthens it. Its hard to keep family relationships healthy because you spend so much time together. Like other posts said, communicating is key.
every family has there own seperate issues that they dont tel anyone. all families are different, no matter what the family who think wont have a problem will have one. families dont communicate as wel as they should and that causes many verbal issues like fightin with one another. when one family member does not comminicate with another those two people will argue why didnt you tell me?
I think that one of the biggest problems in a family relationship is understanding. Its hard for a parent to understand their children and vise versa. kids have a tendency to try and break the rules. Parents have to enforce them. That alone can only cause problems. Every family has these problems and besides any other different problems caused by different family problems we tend to get past this as we grow older. In the end most people would do anything for family no matter what type of relationship they have with them.
(hahaha) Just being related can be a problem. It's just that all family's have there problems and that's normal. For example my brother and I we fight from video games and tv to food. The same thing with older people like my grandparents and great grandparents. But, some basic issues are what to shop for, money, the economy and marriage. That's the Basic's for the people married.
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